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By Chris Chew

So you have a liking for a girl who is already your friend. You wished that she could become your girlfriend but you also know that if you make the wrong step you could even ruin your good platonic friendship.

Then the question will be when do you step in and turn her into your girlfriend? The answer is to look out for the signals she is giving out to you. Before you make your move you should want to make sure she is already sexually attracted towards you. When you detect some of these signals, you will know that she is ready to become your girlfriend the moment you ask her to.

What are the signals you should be looking out for? Well, here are some of them.

a) Since she is already your friend, you do have telephone conversations now and then. However recently, she has been calling you more often than you call her and that your conversations are starting to get longer and longer.

This means that she is already very comfortable with you and that there is a connection between the two of you. If not, how else can both of you have so much to talk about?

b) You noticed that she is sulking when you talk favorably about other girls or when you talk to other girls. That is a sign of jealousy. If she does not have an emotional liking for you, there is no reason to be jealous right?

c) You definitely won”t miss this cue because you will notice that she is dressing up more femininely and even put on some make-up when she didn”t used to. Do understand that she is making the effort of dolling up for you to get your attention.

d) Whenever you are out in a group, she is almost always beside you and chatting with you. Don”t you think that meant something other than just platonic friendship?

e) She talks a lot about you to her friends. Girls, unlike guys just somehow cannot help but talk about the guy they like. So if you found out from her friends or mutual friends that she has been mentioning you name frequently, you may jolly well conclude that she likes you more than just a friend.

f) She touches you very often and standing very close to you during conversations. This is a sure sign that she is flirting with you whether knowingly or not. If you do like her, flirt back with her and enjoy the game.

g) You noticed that somehow, when she asked you out, it is always just the two of you and not with other mutual friends. This is an indication that she is treating the outing as a date with you.

So if you start to observe all these signs and signals and you do like her too, then what are you waiting for? Begin to treat her like your girlfriend and she will eventually become your girlfriend.

However, do be careful that the signals existed before you move in because if she is not ready, she may be too embarrassed to see you again and you may ruin the relationship if you moved in too early.

About The Author

Chris Chew relationship consultant and thinks that if you are seriously considering looking for a girlfriend, then read Art Of Seduction Flirting and Attract Women Pheromones now.

By David Smith

What springs to mind where you think of the word tantra? It sounds like some sex cult or has sleazy connotations, but genuine tantra is ultimately about discovery, expansion, exploration and unity with our self, our bodies, our partners and the universe, sex becomes a spiritual practice and energy exchange, who wouldn”t want an orgasm with the power of the entire universe?

Tantra is often thought of as something only men are interested in, but increasingly, women want more, a deeper connection, and the chance to release the shackle’’s of societal oppression, to be sexually free and satisfied and to be more than an object, to be lovers, partners and a whole rather than just thought of as separate parts of tits and ass here only for men’’s pleasure.

So what can tantra really bring to women? And what benefit can we get?

Sensual tantric massage sessions for women offer a safe environment to explore the entire body, awaken and heighten the senses, and to celebrate and cultivate kundalini/sexual energy. Using breath work and connecting exercises, you are brought into being more present within your body, the 5 senses the gateway to a deeper and natural connection and way of being, allowing you to be your natural authentic self, with all its beauty.

Tantra women’’s session allow space for the entire body to be massaged, not leaving any part out, and paying special attention to areas that often get neglected. Working using the chakras and meridian points that aren”t usually exposed, it’’s a chance to make a real connection between the heart and sex centres, to help nourish, heal and create pleasure using the whole body.

The yoni massage has been designed for women by women, it consists of a unique combinations of twirls, stokes and including labia shiatsu, energizing pressure points, angel stroking, pastry making techniques, allowing you to ride waves of orgasmic pleasure, to have an all over body experience. The best thing ladies, is that once you”ve experienced it, you can send your lover or partner along to learn how to do a massage including the yoni massage, under the instruction of a qualified therapist, they teach men to slow it all down, and how women want to be touched, teaching them that men and women’’s experience different journeys.

This can also be incorporated in a couples session, when you”ve been with a partner for years, things can get a bit stale and although you”ve been through a lot together, sometimes, reigniting the flames of passion, or simply communicating what you want can be tough. That’’s where the couples sessions come in, what could be more amazing then learning how to do a tantric massage on each other, how to connect, how to breath, and how to love in a whole new way.

Tantra is for everyone, and helps women to embrace their inner Goddesses, their femininity, their powerful sensuality and sexuality. Who says its only men that want sex? Women want to be having good sex just as much as men and tantra offers a chance for both parties to achieve this

About The Author

Life has lead me down a curious path but one in which I discovered Tantra, and Tantric Massage it has now become a lifestyle for me and a very happy one too in which through this portal I can share with you what I have learned.

Please visit www.tantricmassagelondon.net more more information about tantric sessions for women

By David Smith

According to studies one in three men suffers from premature ejaculation at some point in their lives. Premature ejaculation is defined as a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to. The consequences of premature ejaculation can cause frustrations and have serious effects on relationships, self esteem and confidence. It’’s not really a topic that gets discussed, but one that a lot of people out there can relate to.
So what causes premature ejaculation, and is there anything to cure this?
Work stress, worry, anxiety, performance pressure, fatigue, depression, lack of experience, and extreme arousal are just some of the factors affecting this issue. Tantra massage can offer a real way of combating these effects, with some hands on practical techniques.

Tantra and tantric massage can help people to relax; when you relax you are able to be more present in your body, so less likely to psyche yourself out by worrying or having unrealistic expectations about performance, or past experiences. Tantric massage includes learning some breathing and relaxation exercises to help calm the mind, and bring you more into your body. It takes pressure off performance, rather focusing on what you can feel and utilizing the whole body to build pleasure. Once you are relaxed, then ejaculation control and prolonging techniques are taught during the lingam massage, offering practical methods to tackle premature ejaculation.

The London Tantric Temple is a haven for all people who are looking for solutions and answers to some very personal issues. Rather than wanting people to hide or be embarrassed, they empower their clients to take a different view, teach them how to relax, and how to control and prolong so that they can regain confidence and have better ongoing relationships with partners. For people who want to learn more about their own bodies, about kundalini energy and who want to celebrate and grow.

The therapists at The London Tantric Temple have years of experience and offer a safe and caring environment to seek hands on help with premature ejaculation difficulty. The London Tantric Temple offer sessions for men, women and couples and genuinely want to help clients feel better about their confidence, their bodies, and about themselves and their relationships. Tantra massage can and does help people and the answer to these problems could be just one call away

About The Author

Life has lead me down a curious path but one in which I discovered Tantra, and Tantric Massage, it has now become a lifestyle for me and a very happy one too in which through this portal I can share with you what I have learned.

Please visit http://www.tantricmassagelondon.net/prolong.html for more information about Prolonging Pleasure how Tantric Masssage can help.

By David Smith

What springs to mind when you hear the word Tantra? Old hippy couples, the Kama Sutra, or perhaps sex that lasts for days and days, whatever your imgaination sums up, have you ever been curious to find out more about the benefits of Tantra and Tantric Massage? The following article gives a great introduction to the princliples of Tantra and how these principles are incorporated in to Tantric Massage which can benefit men, women and couples alike.

Tantra seems to caught up in an air of mystery or a secret sex cult. Tantra is enshrouded by the sexual aspect of it; however the broader approaches of breath work, meditation, movement and ritual are a much larger part of it. Perhaps if we replace the word Zen with Tantra it helps to demystify it somewhat. Zen is defined as an approach, a way of seeing the world, a meditate state of mind – that enlightenment can be attained through meditation, self-contemplation, and intuition. Tantra is about expansion, and connection with the universe, a way of achieving unity, and ultimately about our perception of reality. Tantric Massage aims to use various techniques, deep breathing, relaxation, connecting exercises to help drop you into ”reality” to truly see, feel and experience the sensation in the body, senses and energy. There are seven main principles within Tantra which Tantric massage aim to incorporate. These principles are Surrender, Awareness, Movement, Breath, Sound, Intention, and Acceptance.

Surrendering to pleasure, releasing control with confidence that you are acting out the wishes of the Devine/universal. It is by letting go we allow our views to be stretched, so that decisions based on habitual responses such as fear maybe changed, allowing growth. Surrender is also concerned with self appreciation, how incredible we truly are on all levels, rather than seeing surrender as a negative of renouncing something, it can allow new perspective.

Awareness and surrender go hand in hand; awareness allows us to awaken to every instant, being present in each moment to experience the vividness it has to offer. To develop inner trust to let go, knowing we are aware of the consequence of our actions

Awareness of each movement allows elegance and ease, as movement in the body also moves the energy. Preventing energy escaping maintains a balance between rest and activities which are vital. Tantra see’’s rest as a way of storing energy and by moving you spread your energy around the whole body. It is not just on a physical level, but also on an emotional and spiritual level that movement and rest are vital, and the flow of movement across our whole being one important step in tantric massage.

When was the last time you were aware of your breathing? Breathing is one of the ways that we can nourish ourselves and take in that delicious universal energy; it is a fantastic way of connecting to what is happening within our own bodies, but also a great way of connecting with partners and allows us to go deeper. Each exhale surrender, each inhale awareness.

Vocalizing how we feel, and what we really want to say is tricky in modern society as such people suppress and inhibit themselves. Tantric massage seeks to allow a person to express how they are feeling vocally or verbally, in truth and without judgment.

Clarity of mind arises from surrendered consciousness to shift energy, renewed by breathing and triggered by sounding, uncovering the ecstasy in each moment. Intuition or innate knowing lets our true nature takes hold, the splendor inside begins to spill outside.

Acceptance says yes to all things. There is a freedom from disciple, seeing that all acts are divine, to let go of right or wrong, good or bad without criticism. You can use the keys for every aspect of life such as work, sex, health, love, communication. Tantra supports us in living a liberated, satisfied, and brilliant life and tantric massage fuses these elements together in a sublime and heartfelt way.

About The Author

Life has lead me down a curious path but one in which I discovered Tantra, and Tantric Massage it has now become a lifestyle for me and a very happy one too in which through this portal I can share with you what I have learned.

Please visit www.tantricmassagelondon.net more more information about tantric massage in London

By Brad Long

If you are hoping to win back your ex girlfriend there could be a few ways to make that happen. Every relationship and every situation is different, and yours is no different. With that said there typically is no one way to do things such as you winning back your girlfriend again.

But before you jump in you need to first understand a few things. Certain tactics will only work in some situations. Sometimes you will win while other times you will fail. However, some of these five ways to win back your ex girlfriend should help lead you in the right direction, and give you the best chance of getting her back.

Buy Her Flowers But Don”t Over Do It

Flowers are a fast way of getting into her heart again. Women love them. Guys often do this as a way to say “im sorry” or as a thank you, or as a way to show her how much you”re thinking of her. Frankly, most women enjoy getting flowers especially while she is at work when she”ll get a lot of attention for it.

As the headline reads don”t over do it. I would just keep it simple letting her know you”re thinking about her. Then again don”t be too cheap either so try to shoot for something in between expensive and cheap.

Plan a Date

Take the initiative and be assertive. Those are two qualities women love in men so plan a nice date and see how she responds. The more thought you put into the date, the better your chances of winning your ex girlfriend back.

Give her some time

After the date give her some space. Don”t call or text the next day or the day after that. Show some self restraint and let her be for a while. Let her think about you and the situation so she can make up her mind. This way she can get to her true feelings allowing her to speak to you seriously when she’’s ready.

No Cell Phone

There will be days and nights when she is on your mind and you”re dying to call or text her. Try to avoid this. If you constantly call and text your ex, you will fail to give her the space that I mentioned in the last point. While it is important to stay connected, it is also important to give space.

Keep Your Confidence

If you want to win back your ex girlfriend put your shoulders back and stay confident. Women love confident men, and is one of their favorite traits they find in attractive men. If seem to be second guessing yourself, your ex girlfriend could have second thoughts of getting back together with you.

These ways to win back your ex girlfriend should not be the only things that can help your situation. Again every situation is unique.

About The Author

Getting back together with an ex girlfriend requires a good plan. Perhaps you think it’’s hopeless but in actuality you still have a chance. If you want to learn how to win back my ex girlfriend visit our blog for men. Learn effective tactics and resources that give you the best chance on how to get your ex girlfriend back again.

By Chris Chew

You are suffering from premature ejaculation if you ejaculate before satisfying your partner or yourself. Unknown to many men, premature ejaculation is a common problem affecting most men from to time in their sex life.

This male sexual health problem is particularly common in the earlier part of relationships when sexual excitement, over enthusiasm, anxiety and over stimulation are more pronounced. Younger men who are just finding out about sexual relationships are also more prone to the condition because of their inexperience in managing their sexual performances.

Unlike erectile dysfunction or impotency, premature ejaculation is seldom caused by any physical disorder or medical conditions. It is more of a psychological issue. Many men suffer from the condition simply because of anxiety over his own sexual performances. Sometimes by just by being more relaxed and taking things more easily when having sex can eradicate the problem entirely.

Another way to avoid premature ejaculation is that when your arousal level is getting you closed to your climax, then do a mind flip to distract yourself. Think of something boring or subjects that are completely unrelated to sex like imagining yourself in a football stadium watching a game. This will bring your arousal level down and may stall your premature ejaculation.

Another method commonly used is that as you are approaching your climax during a sexual act, stop the act at once and pull yourself away. Do something else like going to the washroom and wash your face. When your arousal is lessened, you can go back and continue where you have left off. However do not wait too long to go back to your partner or do this too often as it may leave your partner frustrated.

There are also desensitizing creams you can apply on your penis head to desensitize it so that the sexual stimulation is blunted. Another method is to use thicker condoms or use two condoms instead of one for the same purpose.

Some men prefer to masturbate prior any sexual activities with their partners because after having the first ejaculation, it is more difficult to have another one so soon, however one of the most effective ways to treat premature ejaculation and may even cure it permanently is through hypnotherapy.

Your hypnotherapist will put you in a very relaxed state leaving you in a condition between awake and asleep. This is where your conscious mind and the critical mind is so relaxed that your therapist can suggest to your subconscious mind positive suggestions such as removing anxieties to keep your premature ejaculation at bay. Remember, premature ejaculations are usually caused by psychological conditions and not physical ones.

Unlike the other methods of getting rid of premature ejaculations which are just temporary solutions, using hypnosis can treat your underlying psychological issues causing your condition and because of the suggested new beliefs implanted in your subconscious mind, those issues which are the root of your condition can be eradicated permanently.

Once that is successful, you would have treated and cured your condition of premature ejaculation for good and you will be happily on your way to enjoy more satisfying sex for yourself and your partner.

About The Author

Chris Chew is a sought after fitness consultant who counts models, actors and other celebrities as his clients. Read his free articles at Premature ejaculation cure treatment and Premature ejaculation hypnosis cure

By Chris Chew

Do you know that most men will experience some form of erectile dysfunction (ED) at some point in their life? Fortunately for many, it is only a temporary condition. However for others not so fortunate, it can be a frustrating and depressing condition.

As a matter of fact, there are men who feel that having sex is a chore because they simply cannot get an erection or have weak erections. What are the causes of erectile dysfunction and how to treat and cure it.

There are mainly two categories that cause erectile dysfunction and they are psychological and physiological issues. On the psychological aspect, ED may be caused by stress, anxiety, depression and other emotional issues. Whereas on the physiological aspect, it can be caused by low testosterone level, poor blood circulation and other medical conditions such as hypertension, diabetes and various cardiovascular ailments.

The good news is that most ED cases can be treated and cured naturally even without prescription drugs like Viagra. So the first thing you can do is to visit your doctor to see if you are suffering from any medical conditions that cause your impotency and having taken good care of those conditions, you will probably regain your hard erections.

If you do not have other medical conditions, then here are some tips on how to treat and cure your erectile dysfunction the natural way without drugs. You can start off by drinking plenty of water to improve your blood circulation. I said water, plain water and not coffee or sodas.

Then start a regular exercise program to improve your general health, strengthen your muscles and of course, regular exercise naturally increases propensity of your body to produce more testosterone which is sometimes known as the male sex hormone.

To aid your body to increase even more testosterone, do weight bearing compound exercises like squats and dead lifts. This is because when your body repairs itself and builds muscles because of the weightlifting program, it has to produce more testosterone as well as other growth hormones and this will help you in getting stronger erections.

Have enough sleep. Your body repairs and rejuvenates itself when you sleep. This is the time when your body produces the highest amount of testosterone and human growth hormones. This is the reason why in your younger days or even now for that matter, you have morning erections because of the surging hormones produced when you are sleeping.

Sleep deprivation also creates stress on your body and this causes a rise in cortisol which is a stress related hormone. We all know that stress is one of the causes for impotency. If you are depressed or having anxieties, stay away from situations that cause these emotional unbalances. You can”t get your manhood up if your mood is down.

There are also many effective natural and herbal penis enhancement supplements you can try. Since these are pills are made from herbs and are not drugs with possible side effects, they are available without prescription. Your local drugstore owner or pharmacist can be of great help in recommending the supplements that you require.

If you want to treat and cure your erectile dysfunction problem, then try out the ways mentioned above and many of you will be amazed by the results. I know because I was one of you guys.

About The Author

Chris Chew is a sought after fitness and health consultant who counts models, actors and other celebrities as his clients. Read his free articles at Erectile dysfunction supplement pills and Testosterone growth hormone supplements

By Brad Long

Are you sure that you want to win your guy back after a breakup? It can be hard to know exactly how you feel in the days following the breakdown of your relationship. You”re probably feeling isolated and a bit embarrassed, and these feelings can often be confused with true love for your ex. So right now its critical to take a step back and evaluate the relationship you had with your boyfriend, and why it ultimately failed.

If the reason is that long term you are not companionable then do yourself a favor and move onto the next guy. You and your ex deserve to be happy, but this does not mean it will be as a couple.

However if you are sincerely wanting to try and work things out here are a few tips:

1) Do not chase him down and become a stalker trying to encourage him to come back to you. He’’s not going to enjoy it, and will quickly lose respect for you thinking you could be crazy, and was a good idea to break it off with you. You need to impel a confident image even if your insides seem like melting butter.

2) Pay attention to how you look. Most of us do but be aware of your appearance.. As a sharp respected women once said, there is no such thing as an ugly woman, only lazy ones. Now is not the time to let yourself go. Get your hair styled, always wear make up, and wear the clothes that show your body in the best light. Don”t overly adjust your image. He fell in love with you not someone he wont recognize.

3) You need to put your finger on what it was that made the relationship come to an end. Did you conduct yourself badly? If you did, then you need to apologize and do it properly. Men have feelings too even though they commonly manage to hide them better than women.

4) Are you a game player? I don”t know what it is about women but for some reason women at times look at a relationships as fun manipulative chess moves. If I do this, he will do that approach isn”t always the best tactic, and believe it or not men actually do not like being manipulated.

Honesty is always the best policy. If you have been playing games as you were trying to see if your feelings were returned, then just ask him straight out. Nearly all men like the direct line of attack – they are not very good at reading signs and subtle hints.

When its all done make sure you know all reasons why the break up occurred. Yes being attracted to someone is important, but this is not what’’s going to make the relationship last. Mutual respect, appreciation, and values go a long way to avoiding a final break with your boyfriend.

About The Author

Learning how to get your ex back can be challenging and not always the best thing for the both of you. Relationships are difficult to maintain especially if its hard work to make them work. Can you get your ex back? Yes and no. But there are definitely better ways than others to go about getting back together again.