Those who have been in a long term relationship for a long time will see their sex lives differently compared to those who are just starting out. Your relationship might have started sizzling and fantabulous, with sparks flying everywhere, but after years of seeing each other on a daily basis, doing chores and watching each other cope with the rigors of day to day, romance gets eroded if not protected and replenished every so often.

The question is, how will you find the time to romance each other enough to keep the flame burning between you? A willing husband or boyfriend can make her fall in love all over again through love making. A wife or a girlfriend can rock his world all over again just by learning how to open up herself to him during love making.

Sex is the best way to rekindle your love affair with someone you can’t afford to lose. For men, you can…

1. Vary your technique a little, and I just don’t mean positions. Be rough with her when you have always taken the gentle route to making her feel great. On the other hand, you can soften your bedroom game if you have always been rough. Your change of love making style will amaze her and show her a side of you that she hasn’t seen in a long time.
2. Celebrate an important event with love making. It could be a birthday, an anniversary, Christmas, Halloween, Easter and other occasions that warrant a celebration of sorts.
3. Get in the mood by doing mental exercises. Increase your mental alertness to what makes her function as a sexual being. Study her psyche and improve the way you respond to the fantasies she might be willing to try. Play mind games with her and tease her every once in a while. Be mysterious, increase sexual tension and improve your sensual intuition. Refine your love making technique according to what you know she likes and don’t be afraid to show your wild side.

Women (wives or girlfriends) may increase sexual interest in themselves and their partners by being sexually open to adventurous sex. Living out her fantasies, the same fantasies that have been fueling her masturbation, with her partner can improve their sex life and their relationship in general.

Cheating happens because the man and the woman have both lost interest in the sex. They crave the novelty of a fresh relationship and they can no longer see that in each other. Sex is just one of the many ways a couple can rekindle their feelings, and this is the most powerful tool you can use to improve your marriage and your relationship.

Deluding yourself by saying love is all that matters won’t patch the gaping hole inside your relationship. The fact that you’re still together means you do love each other, but that the relationship is suffering means the love needs to be stoked again and again for the passion to come back.