Great sex is a lot like eating a meal. Not just any meal, but a meal you have been raring to eat so badly that you are willing to drive a few miles to get to the only restaurant that sells it. This is not the first time that sex was compared to food. Both trigger a certain need, a certain desire that we want to satisfy.

In this article, we will compare lame sex to great sex using the food analogy. There are only two types of meals in the world: regular food that stops your hunger and those food stuffs that you’re craving to eat.

Lame Sex

Lame sex is like the ordinary meals that we eat on a daily basis. You know the “regular meals” quite well. They are available anywhere, and they only serve to satisfy our hunger for the time being. Sure, these types of food are mouthwatering to someone who’s hungry and they can definitely satisfy the appetite, but a person will not spend thousands in airfare or gas to get to a restaurant that serves this type of food.

Lame sex, like regular meals get old after a while. These don’t excite you anymore and you barely remember the last time you had it. These have become routine. You don’t crave for these and soon you will find yourself saying “this again?”

There’s a way of spicing up your sex life and turn lame sex into great sex; the same way as you would turn an ordinary meal into a fancy dinner. Now in the food analogy, you may add a sauce or some spices to the regular meals you eat and call it your “specialty”. You may even enroll in a cooking school to learn the best way to braise, fry, bake and sauté. You understand that to be good at something, like cooking or having sex, you must learn the unique techniques that will spell the difference between lame and great.

What is great sex?

How exactly does one quantify whether sex is great or not? Simply put, great sex is the type that always leads to orgasm in the man and the woman. Sex is always great when climax is achieved, because this is the pinnacle of pleasure that you and your partner can achieve once you start the process of sexual arousal.

You need to make women WANT to have sex with you, and you can only do that if you can get her to orgasm each and every time you have sex with her. This means putting her into an orgasmic trance, stimulating her enough to have her screaming (begging) for more.

Great sex will make her think of only the pleasure you are giving her. This means no mental distraction to take her mind off the pleasure.

If you can give your girlfriend or wife this kind of pleasure through sex each and every time you make love, then you are sure that she will crave for it like she craves her favorite dishes.