The Great Sex Coach » Female Orgasms http://www.thegreatsexcoach.com Thu, 28 Aug 2008 06:16:39 +0000 en © admin admin No No Female Ejaculation 101 – Was that Pee or Was it ‘Cum’? http://www.thegreatsexcoach.com/articles/sextips/1294/female-ejaculation-101-%e2%80%93-was-that-pee-or-was-it-%e2%80%98cum%e2%80%99/ http://www.thegreatsexcoach.com/articles/sextips/1294/female-ejaculation-101-%e2%80%93-was-that-pee-or-was-it-%e2%80%98cum%e2%80%99/#comments Fri, 25 Apr 2008 04:37:28 +0000 Great Sex Coach http://www.thegreatsexcoach.com/female-ejaculation-101-%e2%80%93-was-that-pee-or-was-it-%e2%80%98cum%e2%80%99/

 

Ironically, not many people know that women ejaculate as well. This is probably because a great number of women don’t get to experience an orgasm in their lifetimes but that’s another topic altogether. What we’re discussing here now is all about female ejaculation. 

Can Females Really Ejaculate?

Unlike (most) men, women don’t ejaculate all the time they reach a climax. However, when they do, it’s almost always a result of a G-spot orgasm.
 
So what’s happening? Women have what is called the Para-Urethral glands, which is basically the female equivalent of a male’s prostrate gland. The liquid this gland excretes is very much like the fluid that men produce from the male prostate. And just like in men, this ‘discharge’ passes into the urethra, and in some instances, goes into the vagina. The Para-Urethral glands are filled with liquid at the sexual arousal stage and may actually be felt through the vaginal wall.

During sex, women may experience squirting or ejaculation and think that what they are emitting is pee rather than ‘cum’. However, clinical research on this liquid reveals that they have a different composition than pee. It’s clearer than urine and unlike the latter, produces hardly any smell at all.

Still, if you or your partner is concerned about her ‘peeing’ on you (as opposed to ‘cummin’ on you) then simply ask her to urinate before you engage in sex.

When Thoughts of Peeing Prevent Female Ejaculation…

Women claim that G-spot stimulation induces a feeling in them that makes them want to pee. This feeling is normal and will actually pass. However, when thoughts of peeing (and the embarrassment that this may arouse) consume them, then it’s difficult to reach a climax!

Instead of focusing on sexual pleasure and sexual release, she may actually be stressed out by the thought of embarrassing herself by peeing on you and/or on the bed.

So what should you do?

Reassure her that it’s ok to ‘let go’. She needs to understand and feel comfortable that she won’t be urinating even though she feels like she needs to. Assure her that in the end, even though things will get a little wet, she’ll be in pure sexual bliss. If she’s still not reassured, then comfort by telling her that you don’t even mind a little pee at all and that it’s all part of making love.

This is actually why ‘setting the stage for lovemaking’ is so important. Think nice soothing music playing in the background while candles and scented oils burn. All these will make her relax and less conscious of accidentally urinating while having sex.

Another great tip to make her more comfortable and less self-conscious is to actually start foreplay and G-spot stimulation while you too are in the bathtub. This way, any inhibitions (or actual occurrence) concerning peeing are ‘disguised’ by the warm water and soap suds enveloping your bodies.

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